Sleeping Beauty's flaws

My daughter Kira (age 3) is pretty much obsessed with Sleeping Beauty these days. As such, I wind up reading the story A LOT, and in many forms. And to that end, I have become a bit of a Sleeping Beauty scholar so to speak. And the more I read it the more I realize all of its horrific flaws. To wit:

1) The whole mess starts because the King and Queen decide to invite every person and fairy they can think of EXCEPT for Maleficent. She is understandably ticked off. Sure she probably would have given an ugly green or black baby blanket as a gift, but it sure would have beat a curse o' death, brought on by touching a spinning wheel.

2) When Maleficent puts the curse of death on Aurora and leaves, Meriwether (a good fairy) steps in to try to help things. She modifies the spell with s/death/sleep/ (sorry, perl creeping in, I always saw programming as a sort of witchcraft). Fine, sleep is better, but then she appends this horribly complicated condition that the spell must be broken by "love's true kiss". If I was the King I would be thinking "Geez, thanks a lot! Couldn't you have made it something like 'when the sun next rises' or 'when you smell fried bacon' or something a little less obtuse!"

3) Now that the curse is set, the curse has an expiration date of sunset on Aurora's 16th birthday. So the fairies hide her with them for 16 years. Good idea. But then they bring her BACK to the castle on the last day before the curse is up. WTF?! They couldn't wait 24 more hours?!

4) In the Disney version, While Aurora is hiding in the forest with the fairies, she is stumbled across by Prince Phillip. He decides the best way to meet her is to hide in the bushes and then reach out take her hand while she is distracted. Not the best strategy I would think. Yet, somehow she falls for him anyway.

5) Later she goes back to the castle and finds a spinning wheel. Not knowing what it is, she decides to touch the sharp spindle. Don't you think her parents or the fairies would have shown her a picture of a spinning wheel each day and say "If you ever see one of these, DON'T TOUCH IT!" Even my daughter brought up this one.

6) Seeing what has happened, rather than alert the castle and try to find help in the form of someone to kiss the princess, the fairies put everyone in the castle to sleep (I am starting to think 'sleep' is the only spell Merrywether knows. I also think they really do this to keep the King from executing them when he finds out they have screwed up again). Depending on the version, it takes anywhere from days to over 100 YEARS for anyone to find her as a result.

7) Finally Prince Phillip comes across the castle. Finding it he decides to creep around for a while and check it out. Eventually he finds the sleeping princess and decides "Cool. Sleeping girl. Perhaps I should take advantage of her state and make out with her."

8) She wakes up and thinks "Hey, there is a stranger leaning over me and kissing me while I sleep. My hero." instead of calling for the guards.

9) The prince goes to the King (now awake) and basically says "Hey, I just found your daughter sleeping and decided immediately to have my way with her. She woke up before I got very far. Can I marry her?" and the King says "Sure."

Am I wrong here? This is one of the most ill-conceived narratives I have ever read. And I thought Van Helsing was bad.

Parenting advice from my 5 year old daughter

So I get home from work and Brynna says to me "I was pretty good today. Mommy was pretty good too, but she messed up a bit. At lunch she told Kira 'no happy meal'. Then she got her a happy meal. Later she told me 'no cookies'. Later, I get cookies. I mean...WHAT'S UP WITH THAT!"

Boundries

Ok, can someone back up this idea I am trying to get across to my wife? It's this whole concept of heterosexual male boundries. Basically, it's that they EXIST. It's not just me. Heterosexual males, for the most part, try very hard to look very heterosexual. They don't 'check each other out' in the men's room (you look forward, or down, THAT'S IT!). They don't hang out naked around the campfire at all guy camping trips. It just isn't done. It's not that I am homophobic. I could care less what other guys look at. But in general heterosexual males are trained early on to go out of their way to 'not look' or not see other male nudity. She just does not believe that other guys think this way.

Now, on the other hand, all 'guys' know that all women are in fact bi-sexual, especially if they have twin sisters.